Reconnect with Yourself

Rediscovering Your True Identity and Living a Fulfilling Life

Do you ever feel like you've lost your sense of self? Perhaps you've been so focused on caring for others that you've forgotten what makes you happy, or maybe you've been living in a role that doesn't align with your true identity. Whatever the reason, feeling disconnected from yourself can be a frustrating and overwhelming experience.

As a holistic coach, I work with women struggling to reconnect with themselves and rediscover their true identities. In this blog post, I'll share some ideas, examples, and tips to help you do the same.

•  Practice self-reflection One of the first steps to reconnecting with yourself is to take some time for self-reflection. This can involve asking yourself questions like "What do I value?" or "What are my strengths?" Also, journaling is a way to explore your thoughts and emotions.
• Identify your passions. Think about the things that bring you joy and excitement. It could be painting, hiking, or cooking. Whatever it is, make time for those activities and prioritise them in your life.
• Set boundaries. Learning to say "no" to things that don't align with your values or bring you happiness is essential to reconnecting with yourself. Setting boundaries can be complex, but it's essential for creating a life that aligns with your true identity.
• Embrace your authentic self. Sometimes we wear masks or hide our true selves to fit in or please others. However, embracing your authentic self can lead to greater happiness and fulfilment. It's okay to be different and unique, and in fact, that's what makes us all interesting.
• Seek support. Reconnecting with yourself can be challenging, and support is essential along the way. This can come in the form of a coach, therapist, or supportive friends and family members.

For example, one of my clients, Sarah, had spent years working in a corporate job that didn't align with her true passions or values. As a result, she felt like she had lost touch with herself and struggled to find meaning in her life. Through my coaching sessions, Sarah ( not her real name ) was able to identify her passions and strengths. As a result, she ultimately decided to leave her job and start her own business. As a result, she now feels a greater sense of purpose and fulfilment in her life.

Another example is Mia, who was so focused on caring for her family and others that she had forgotten what made her happy. Through journaling and self-reflection, Mia (not her real name ) could identify and prioritise her passions. As a result, she now makes time for painting and other creative hobbies, which has brought her a renewed sense of joy.

 Reconnecting with yourself and rediscovering your true identity can be a transformative experience. By practising self-reflection, identifying your passions, setting boundaries, embracing your authentic self, and seeking support, you can create a life that aligns with your values and brings you happiness and fulfilment. If you're ready to take the first step towards this journey, reach out to me and let's start this process of self-discovery together!

Springtime Blooms

As springtime blooms with radiant light,

Like a burst of colour in a painter's sight,

Shadows dance upon the ground,

Like a waltz of darkness that's profound,

A contrast of dark and bright,

Like a yin-yang balance in sight,

In the paths of life, we've found,

Like a labyrinth where we're bound.

For every step, we take with grace,

Like a dancer moving in space,

A shadow falls behind,

Like a faithful friend that's kind,

A reminder of the earthly race,

Like a clock ticking at a steady pace,

That we're on until we find,

Like a treasure that's left behind.

The end of life's long winding road,

Like a story with a heavy load,

Where shadows fade away,

Like a mist on a sunny day.

And we're left with what we sowed,

Like a harvest that's fully grown,

In the light of every day,

Like a sun that brightens our way.

But in the springtime, shadows play,

Like actors in a grand display,

A game of light and dark,

Like a dance with a playful spark,

A contrast of the night and day,

Like a melody with a different sway,

Of the journey that we embark on,

Like a ship that sails in the dark.

So let us bask in springtime's glow,

Like a river that gently flows,

And cherish every stride,

Like a precious moment that's alive,

For in the light and shadows' flow,

Like a river that ebbs and flows,

Our life's path we must abide,

Like a sailor that sets a course with pride.