A Storm Within

Sadness and anxiety, a storm within,

A tempest of emotions that never seems to end.

Tears that fall, fear that grips,

A heart that aches, a mind that flips.

Sadness that's fueled by past regrets,

Anxiety that's born from future threats.

It's a cycle that spins out of control,

A dance of darkness that clouds the soul.

The sadness whispers, the anxiety screams,

A constant chatter that never let us go.

It's a weight that drags, a burden to bear,

A constant reminder of things that aren't fair.

But in the midst of this turmoil and pain,

There's a chance for growth, to break the chain.

To understand the root of the sadness and anxiety,

And to find a way to heal and recover, eventually.

So let the sadness and anxiety be felt,

But let them not consume. Let them not melt.

For in this struggle, there's a chance to grow,

And to find peace in letting go.

It's a process, a journey of self-discovery,

To understand emotions and learn to recover.

With time and patience, one can find a way,

To let go of sadness and anxiety and find a brighter day.

Reconnecting with Your True Self

  Have you ever felt like you're just going through the motions, trapped in a cycle of routine and monotony? Perhaps you've convinced yourself that this is okay, yet confusion lingers. You might even find it hard to remember the last time you felt alive.

This feeling of disconnection is not uncommon, especially for those of us who grew up in environments where self-expression was stifled. Take the story of M, for example. Growing up in a large family, M learned to suppress his emotions. With so many voices vying for attention, he felt there wasn't enough space to express himself. Over time, this suppression turned into a habit, leading him to shut down emotionally and remain silent. As a result, his life became a series of automatic responses devoid of genuine passion or purpose.

However, as M took the time to reflect on his life, he came to a startling realization: something vital was missing. He couldn't quite identify when or how he had learned to numb his feelings, but he recognized that this habit prevented him from truly connecting with himself and forming deep relationships with others. This realization prompted M to ask himself some critical questions:

• What do I love unconditionally?
• What is my number-one accomplishment in life?
• What do I enjoy doing when no one is watching?
• What would my life look like if there was no such thing as fear and failure?

These questions are not just for M; they can resonate with anyone who feels disconnected from their true self. If you can relate to M's experience, you must recognize that you are not alone. Many individuals struggle with suppressing their emotions due to their upbringing or other life experiences. The good news is that it is entirely possible to reconnect with your feelings and live a more fulfilling life.

Steps to Reconnect with Your True Self

1. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness is a powerful tool for self-discovery and emotional awareness. Take time each day to reflect on your thoughts and feelings in the present moment without judgment. This practice can help you become more attuned to your emotions and understand how they influence your behaviour and decisions. Consider incorporating mindfulness meditation, breathing exercises, or simple moments of quiet reflection into your routine.

2. Journaling: Writing can be a vital outlet for your thoughts and feelings. Set aside a few minutes daily to jot down your emotions, experiences, and reflections. Journaling helps you process your emotions and provides clarity on your thoughts and goals. Consider exploring specific prompts, such as reflecting on what brings you joy or what dreams you've set aside.

3. Seek Support: There's no need to navigate this journey alone. Talking to a trusted friend or family member can offer a different perspective and comfort. If you find it challenging to process your emotions independently, consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counsellor. They can offer guidance and tools to help you work through feelings and reconnect with your true self.

4. Engage in Activities that Bring You Joy: Reconnecting with your true self often involves rediscovering what makes you happy. Make time for hobbies, sports, or activities that bring you joy. Whether painting, hiking, dancing, or cooking, find activities that allow you to express yourself freely. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and support your passions.

5. Explore Your Values: Reflect on your core values and what matters most. Understanding your values can serve as a guiding compass in your life, helping you make decisions that align with your true self. Consider creating a vision board or writing a list of your values to visualize what you aspire to be and do.

6. Practice Self-Compassion: As you embark on this journey of self-discovery, remember to be kind to yourself. Emotions can be messy, and feeling vulnerable as you navigate your feelings is okay. Embrace self-compassion and recognize that healing takes time. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and remind yourself that it's okay to ask for help.

 Remember, there is always time to reconnect with your emotions and live a more fulfilling life. By reflecting on your feelings and seeking support, you can learn to live more authentically and find greater meaning. This journey is not a race; it is a personal exploration. Embrace the process, and take it one step at a time. Your true self is waiting to be discovered, and the more you nurture this connection, the more vibrant and meaningful your life will become.